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Verbal abuse creates Emotional pain and mental anguish. It
is characterized by a person subjecting or exposing another to behavior that may result in psychological trauma, including anxiety, chronic depression, or post-traumatic stress disorder.
1. Domestic Violence can happen to anyone, regardless of race, gender, ethnicity and sexual orientation. Both men and women can be victims.
2. Domestic Violence occurs at all levels of society, regardless of their social, economic, racial or cultural backgrounds.
3. Studies have shown that the cause of intimate partner violence isn't due to alcohol or drug abuse. If there is already violence happening in the relationship, the use of alcohol and drugs can increase the aggression through its effects on your cognitive function. Substance abuse itself does not cause violent or abusive behaviors.
You can be stalked by a current or former partner. Most victims know the person is stalking them. A survey of college student stalking victims revealed that 4 out of 5 knew their stalker.
Keep in mind, even though this power and control wheel is geared towards women being the victims; men can also be victims too. 1 in 7men have been victims of severe physical violence by an intimate partner in their lifetime.
So, how do you know how to navigate threw a crisis? How do you know if what your saying or doing is right? Victims are in such a fragile state, you don't want to do or say anything that can potentially make things worse. What you need to understand is victims are the experts in their relationship. They know when its safe to get help or safe to leave. Leaving and abuser is not an event, it's not one simple task of getting up, leaving and never looking back. Its a process, one that is terrifying and a lot of the time life threatening.
About 4,000 women die each year due to physical abuse. Of the total physical abuse homicides, about 75% of the victims were killed as they attempted to leave the relationship or after the relationship had ended. The most dangerous time for a man or women is when they are leaving an abusive relationship.
When helping a victim try to remember these tips so that you can help the victim navigate their own way to safety.
Any intentional and unwanted contact with you or something close to your body
If you personally confront the stalker, he or she will leave you alone.
You cannot be stalked by the person you are dating.
Helping someone in crisis
Any type of bullying or harassing behavior that occurs online, through social networking, text messaging, or other technologies. These acts include anything from sending or posting mean or threatening messages about another person to disclosing private information without permission.
Any sort of non-consensual sexual contact. Sexual abuse can happen to men or women of any age. Sexual abuse by a partner/intimate can include derogatory name calling, refusal to use contraception, deliberately causing unwanted physical pain during sex, deliberately passing on sexual diseases or infections and using objects, toys, or other items without consent and to cause pain or humiliation.
In the state of Michigan, the age of consent is 16 yrs.
Stalkers rarely just stop. Often stalking behaviors escalate and can become violent. Seek assistance to help you deal with a stalking situation or if
you feel afraid.
Domestic Abuse Intervention Project
202 East Superior Street
Duluth, Minnesota 55802
Contrary to what many believe, domestic violence is not just about physical violence. It can also include sexual abuse, emotional abuse, financial abuse, and stalking. Basically, domestic violence offenders always feel the need to be in control of their victims. The less in control an offender feels, the more they want to hurt others.
Myths & Facts
If you ignore a stalker he or she will just go away.
Stalkers can be dangerous, and confronting a stalker may put you in danger. 73% of intimatepartner stalkers verbally threatened victims with physical violence, and 46% reported being the
victim of physical violence.
Why do victims choose to stay? Why don't they just leave?
Myth vs. Fact
We often put ourselves in the place of the victims and imagine ourselves leaving at the first signs of abuse. But breaking free of abuse is not simply a matter of walking out the door. Leaving is a process, one that is terrifying and a lot of the time life threatening. Studies show about 4,000 victims die each year due to physical abuse. Of the total physical abuse homicides, about 75% of the victims were killed as they attempted to leave the relationship or after the relationship had ended. The most dangerous time for a victim is when they are leaving an abusive relationship.
Types of abuse: Physical, Emotional/Verbal, Sexual, Digital & Stalking
1. Only women can be victims of Domestic Violence
2. Domestic Violence only happens to poor families
3. Battering is caused by alcohol and drug abuse
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Stalking is a pattern of behavior that makes you feel afraid, nervous, harassed, or in danger. It is when someone repeatedly contacts you, follows you, sends you things, talks to you when you don't want them to, or threatens you.
Stalking behaviors can include:
Verbal or Emotional Abuse